Narcissistic Quotes

“People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one's narcissism. The narcissistic orientation is one in which one experiences as real only that which exists within oneself, while the phenomena in the outside world have no reality in themselves, but are experienced only from the viewpoint of their being useful or dangerous to one. The opposite pole to narcissism is objectivity; it is the faculty to see other people and things as they are, objectively, and to be able to separate this objective picture from a picture which is formed by one's desires and fears.”
― Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

“What are you talking about?" Narcissus demanded. "I am amazing. Everyone knows this."
"Amazing at pure suck," Leo said. "If I was as suck as you, I'd drown myself. Oh wait, you already did that.”
― Rick Riordan, The Mark of Athena

“People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them and be blinded to all the good your heart has to offer. They look no further than what they want to see. Unfortunately, most of them remain a victim throughout their life.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Many people cannot love themselves because they only love the illusions that they make of themselves. They merely like to wallow around in the narcissistic cocoon delusively constructed with the bits and pieces of their deceptions. ("Being my best friend" )”
― Erik Pevernagie

“Narcissistic personality disorder is named for Narcissus, from Greek mythology, who fell in love with his own reflection. Freud used the term to describe persons who were self-absorbed, and psychoanalysts have focused on the narcissist's need to bolster his or her self-esteem through grandiose fantasy, exaggerated ambition, exhibitionism, and feelings of entitlement.”
― Donald W. Black, DSM-5 Guidebook: The Essential Companion to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders

“But that’s the thing about narcissists. They can try to fool you, with all their heart, but in the end, they’re just fooling themselves.”
― Ellie Fox, And then the Devil Cried: Episode Two

“I used to hold grudges until I realized that most people are narcissistic and their actions are driven by an unhealthy self-interest and not maliciousness towards me.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“No other being is lesser human than the one who thinks of others as such.”
― Abhijit Naskar, Human Making is Our Mission: A Treatise on Parenting

“I spend my life constantly calling in ‘imaginary’ debts that aren’t owed to me in order to avoid the ‘real’ debts that I owe to others, and so everybody ends up bankrupt.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough

“Ego is borne of the need to ‘prove’ oneself instead of making the choice to ‘be’ oneself. And so maybe we need to begin curbing the birthrate.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough

“Many survivors of a narcissist discover that they’ve sacrificed so much in an attempt to please the narcissist that they’ve lost sight of who they are. Rediscovering oneself involves reclaiming things once loved, be it passions, friendships, or even jobs. It’s about finding that one thing you used to enjoy and taking it back. Reconnect with your inner child, play, and reintroduce yourself to the joys that make you uniquely you.”
― Tracy Malone

“Discovering that your life was built on falsehoods and that a narcissist exploited you is a profoundly painful experience. It transcends a typical breakup, as narcissists employ vicious deceptions to shatter their victims emotionally.”
― Tracy Malone

“Victims often regret the years spent with a narcissist. Although time cannot be reclaimed, clinging to the notion of “wasting years” prolongs the anger tied to that period. If you’re already angry that they stole that time, refrain from allowing them to reside in your heart for another day.”
― Tracy Malone

“Raised by a narcissist, I yearned for a Prince Charming to rescue me from my metaphorical tower. Ironically, I ended up with a narcissist who dubbed himself Prince Charming. The outcome wasn’t what I envisioned. Despite his attempts to break me, he inadvertently spurred my growth, making me the best version of myself. I am now free from his false life.”
― Tracy Malone

“Narcissism will put a human on the edge of the "cliff of harsh humility" with one leg dangling over and a breeze about to blow.”
― Julieanne O'Connor

“An investment in myself that ends with myself is the secret to bankruptcy.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough

“When a man can’t accept rejection, there’s no such thing as letting him down easy. So just accept the fact that he might call you a mean, stuck up B! among other things depending on how bruised his ego is over you politely saying you’re not interested. It’s not you- it’s him.”
― Niedria Kenny, Order in the Courtroom: The Tale of a Texas Poker Player

“Narcissists may exhibit extreme cleanliness or utter disarray. An in-between scenario is when messy individuals impose cleanup duties on others, while neat freaks insist you conform to their standards, leaving no room for your authentic self in either case.”
― Tracy Malone

“Narcissists operate on their unique logic and irrationality. Conversations or recaps with them lack coherence; they selectively interpret the truth, disregarding elements that don’t align with their narrative.”
― Tracy Malone

“Narcissists tend to gravitate toward dubious lawyers who prioritize shielding their assets and are willing to go to extremes to undermine their ex-spouses. The narcissist’s vengeful agenda compels the lawyer to comply or be replaced. Frequent changes in legal representation may signal attempts to push lawyers beyond ethical boundaries.”
― Tracy Malone

“Narcissists sprinkle word salad on holiday cheer, turning joyous moments into tangled confusions, leaving the spirit of celebration lost in a dressing of their self-centered discourse.”
― Tracy Malone

“The initial holiday without your child is undoubtedly heart-wrenching, as confusion and uncertainty loom. Your strength in guiding them through this transition, without letting the fear of being alone without them take over, is crucial. Be resilient and forge new memories for their first solo holiday with you.”
― Tracy Malone

“Dr. Datura was good. But only a certain type of woman believed him. They were usually the ones looking to be saved. The forlorn ones.”
― Niedria Kenny, Order in the Courtroom: The Tale of a Texas Poker Player

“Narcissistic revenge fantasies. As the shock of betrayal intensifies, victims often entertain healthy revenge fantasies against their narcissist. It’s a way for the mind to grasp the reality. Remember, daydreaming isn’t hiring a hitman, unlike the tactics they employ.”
― Tracy Malone

“If you are living in the past, you may experience depression, anger, or guilt.


If you are living in the future, you may experience anxiety, or fear.


If you are living in the present moment you will feel grounded, calm, love and joy.


To come back to center, replace any negative emotions by finding gratitude for everything.”
― Tracy Malone

“The reality of narcissistic parents is that their children may find solace in the freedom that arrives with their passing, allowing a smile to grace their faces.”
― Tracy Malone

“Narcissists lovebomb their victims with affection, all while subtly assessing their reactions. Sharing stories of their perceived ugliness, they gauge your willingness to praise and reaffirm their beauty. Testing if you be a good supply?”
― Tracy Malone

“Salt does not belong in what I am cooking.”
― Niedria D. Kenny

“Even when you've gone full no contact, when does the narcissist actually ever stop with the shenanigans? They never stop trying to destroy you, do they? Your happiness is like ether to them, and your pain is their constant resuscitation. Is there no balm in Gilead”
― Niedria D. Kenny, Order in The Courtroom: The Tale of The Texas Poker Player